第二步：精读重点段落

（Tips: 双击文中单词可以查释义并加入你的生词本哦）

[5] These houses are often too isolating – too far from work and from one another. According to a national survey ongoing since 1974, Americans have never been less likely to be friends with their neighbors than they are now, with neighborliness lowest in the suburbs. But studies have also shown that single people are bucking those trends. For example, they are more likely than married people to encourage, help and socialize with their friends and neighbors. They are also more likely to visit, support, advise and stay in touch with their siblings and parents.

• isolating /ˈaɪsəˌleɪtɪŋ/ adj. 孤立的，绝缘的
• buck /bʌk/ v. 违逆 (潮流); 抗拒 (体制)
• sibling /ˈsɪblɪŋ/ n. 兄弟姐妹

[6] In fact, people who live alone are often the life of their cities and towns. They tend to participate in more civic groups and public events, enroll in more art and music classes, and go out to dinner more often than people who live with others. Single people, regardless of whether they live alone or with others, also volunteer more for social service organizations, educational groups, hospitals and organizations devoted to the arts than people who are married.

• civic groups 民间团体
• enroll /ɪnˈrəʊl/ v. 注册（课程）
• regardless of 且不论，不管
• devote /dɪˈvəʊt/ v. 致力于，奉献于

[9] Yet studies of people who live alone typically find that most are doing just fine; they don’t feel isolated, nor are they sad and lonely. Reports of the early death of single people have also been greatly exaggerated, as have claims that marriage transforms miserable, sickly single people into happy and healthy spouses. In some significant ways, it’s the single people who are doing particularly well. For example, people with more diversified relationship portfolios tend to be more satisfied with their lives. In contrast, the insularity of couples who move in together or get married can leave them vulnerable to poorer mental health.

• exaggerate /ɪɡˈzædʒəˌreɪt/ v. 夸张
• miserable /ˈmɪzərəbəl/ adj. 悲惨的；痛苦的
• spouse /spaʊs/ n. 配偶
• diversified /daɪ'vɜːsɪfaɪd/ adj. 多样化的；各种的
• portfolio /pɔːtˈfəʊlɪəʊ/ n. 公文包；文件夹；证券投资组合

[10] Studies have shown that people who stay single develop more confidence in their own opinions and undergo more personal growth and development than people who marry. For example, they value meaningful work more than married people do. They may also have more opportunities to enjoy the solitude that many of them savor.

• undergo /ˌʌndəˈɡəʊ/ v. 经历; 经受
• solitude /ˈsɒlɪˌtjuːd/ n. 独处
• savor /ˈseɪvə/ v. 尽情享受，品味

[14] Some of the most fascinating innovations are pursued by people who seek both solitude and easy sociability. These individuals might move into their own apartment, but it’s in a building or neighborhood where friends and family are already living. They might buy a duplex with a close friend, or explore cohousing communities or pocket neighborhoods, which are communities of small homes clustered around shared spaces such as courtyards or gardens.

• innovation /ˌɪnəˈveɪʃən/ n. 创新
• duplex /ˈdjuːplɛks/ n. 联式房屋，复式公寓

[16] As the potential for living a full and meaningful single life becomes more widely known, living single will become more of a genuine choice. And when living single is a real choice, then getting married will be, too. Fewer people will marry as a way of fleeing single life or simply doing what they are expected to do, and more will choose it because it’s what they really want.

• flee /fliː/ v. 逃离

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More people than ever before are single – and that’s a good thing

[1] The 21st century is the age of living single. Today, the number of single adults in the U.S. – and many other nations around the world – is unprecedented. And the numbers don’t just say people are staying single longer before settling down. More are staying single for life. A 2014 Pew Report estimates that by the time today’s young adults reach the age of 50, about one in four of them will have never married.

• unprecedented /ʌnˈprɛsɪˌdɛntɪd/ adj. 空前的；史无前例的
• settle down 成家，安家；定居，安定下来

[2] The ascendancy of single living has left some in a panic. US News & World Report, for example, cautioned that Americans think the country’s moral values are bad and getting worse, and one of the top reasons for their concern is the large number of people remaining single.

• ascendancy /əˈsɛndənsɪ/ n. 优势，支配（地位）
• caution /ˈkɔːʃən/ v./n. 警告，告诫； n. 谨慎
• moral values 道德观，道德价值

[3] But instead of fretting, maybe we should celebrate. I’m a social scientist, and I’ve spent the past two decades researching and writing about single people. I’ve found that the rise of single living is a boon to our cities and towns and communities, our relatives and friends and neighbors. This trend has the chance to redefine the traditional meaning – and confines – of home, family and community.

• fretting /frɛtɪŋ/ n. 担心
• boon /buːn/ n. 福音
• confines /' kɑnfaɪnz/ n. 界限，范围

Ties that bind

[4] For years, communities across the country have been organized by clusters of nuclear families living in suburban homes. But there are some signs that this arrangement isn’t working out so well.

• cluster /ˈklʌstə/ n. (人或物的) 群

[5] These houses are often too isolating – too far from work and from one another. According to a national survey ongoing since 1974, Americans have never been less likely to be friends with their neighbors than they are now, with neighborliness lowest in the suburbs. But studies have also shown that single people are bucking those trends. For example, they are more likely than married people to encourage, help and socialize with their friends and neighbors. They are also more likely to visit, support, advise and stay in touch with their siblings and parents.

• isolating /ˈaɪsəˌleɪtɪŋ/ adj. 孤立的，绝缘的
• buck /bʌk/ v. 违逆 (潮流); 抗拒 (体制)
• sibling /ˈsɪblɪŋ/ n. 兄弟姐妹

[6] In fact, people who live alone are often the life of their cities and towns. They tend to participate in more civic groups and public events, enroll in more art and music classes, and go out to dinner more often than people who live with others. Single people, regardless of whether they live alone or with others, also volunteer more for social service organizations, educational groups, hospitals and organizations devoted to the arts than people who are married.

• civic groups 民间团体
• enroll /ɪnˈrəʊl/ v. 注册（课程）
• regardless of 且不论，不管
• devote /dɪˈvəʊt/ v. 致力于，奉献于

[7] In contrast, when couples move in together or get married, they tend to become more insular, even if they don’t have children.

• in contrast 与此相反
• insular /ˈɪnsjʊlə/ adj. 与世隔绝的; 保守的

Building strength and resilience

[8] Unfortunately, single life continues to be stigmatized, with single people routinely stereotyped as less secure and more self-centered than married people. They’re said to die sooner, alone and sad.

• stigmatize /ˈstɪɡməˌtaɪz/ v. 侮辱，蔑视，可耻
• routinely /ruːˈtiːnlɪ/ adv. 例行地; 常规性地
• stereotype /ˈstɛrɪəˌtaɪp/ v. 把…模式化; 对…产生成见

[9] Yet studies of people who live alone typically find that most are doing just fine; they don’t feel isolated, nor are they sad and lonely. Reports of the early death of single people have also been greatly exaggerated, as have claims that marriage transforms miserable, sickly single people into happy and healthy spouses. In some significant ways, it’s the single people who are doing particularly well. For example, people with more diversified relationship portfolios tend to be more satisfied with their lives. In contrast, the insularity of couples who move in together or get married can leave them vulnerable to poorer mental health.

• exaggerate /ɪɡˈzædʒəˌreɪt/ v. 夸张
• miserable /ˈmɪzərəbəl/ adj. 悲惨的；痛苦的
• spouse /spaʊs/ n. 配偶
• diversified /daɪ'vɜːsɪfaɪd/ adj. 多样化的；各种的
• portfolio /pɔːtˈfəʊlɪəʊ/ n. 公文包；文件夹；证券投资组合

[10] Studies have shown that people who stay single develop more confidence in their own opinions and undergo more personal growth and development than people who marry. For example, they value meaningful work more than married people do. They may also have more opportunities to enjoy the solitude that many of them savor.

• undergo /ˌʌndəˈɡəʊ/ v. 经历; 经受
• solitude /ˈsɒlɪˌtjuːd/ n. 独处
• savor /ˈseɪvə/ v. 尽情享受，品味

Redefining the family and home

[11] Married people often put their spouse (and, for some, kids) at the center of their lives. That’s what they’re expected to do, and often it’s also what they want to do. But single people are expanding the traditional boundaries of family. The people they care about the most might include family in the traditional sense. But they’ll also loop in friends, ex-partners and mentors. It’s a bigger, more inclusive family of people who matter.

• expand /ɪkˈspænd/ v. (使)扩大；增加
• boundary /ˈbaʊndərɪ/ n. 边界
• loop /luːp/ v. 使）成圈[环]；把…绕成圈
• mentor /ˈmɛntɔː/ n. 导师

[12] For many single people, single-family suburban homes aren’t going to offer them the balance between sociability and solitude that they crave. They are instead finding or creating a variety of different life spaces.

• crave /kreɪv/ v. 渴望得到

[13] Sometimes you’ll see 21st-century variations of traditional arrangements, like multi-generational households that allow for privacy and independence as well as social interaction. Others – and not just the very young – are living with their friends or other families of choice. Those who cherish their alone time will often choose to live alone. Some have committed romantic relationships but choose to live in places of their own, a lifestyle of “living apart together.”

• multi-generational households 多代家庭
• privacy /ˈpraɪvəsɪ/ n. 隐私
• independence /ˌɪndɪˈpɛndəns/ n. 独立
• social interaction 社交互动
• commit /kəˈmɪt/ v. 〔在感情上〕承诺，忠于

[14] Some of the most fascinating innovations are pursued by people who seek both solitude and easy sociability. These individuals might move into their own apartment, but it’s in a building or neighborhood where friends and family are already living. They might buy a duplex with a close friend, or explore cohousing communities or pocket neighborhoods, which are communities of small homes clustered around shared spaces such as courtyards or gardens.

• innovation /ˌɪnəˈveɪʃən/ n. 创新
• duplex /ˈdjuːplɛks/ n. 联式房屋，复式公寓

[15] Single parents are also innovating. Single mothers, for example, can go to CoAbode to try to find other single mothers with whom they can share a home and a life. Other single people might want to raise children with the full support of another parent. Now they can look for a partner in parenting – with no expectations for romance or marriage – at websites such as Family by Design and Modamily.

• CoAbode 一个为单亲妈妈提供共同抚养孩子配对的机构组织

[16] As the potential for living a full and meaningful single life becomes more widely known, living single will become more of a genuine choice. And when living single is a real choice, then getting married will be, too. Fewer people will marry as a way of fleeing single life or simply doing what they are expected to do, and more will choose it because it’s what they really want.

• flee /fliː/ v. 逃离

[17] If current trends continue, successive generations will have unprecedented opportunities to pursue the life that suits them best, rather than the one that is prescribed.

• successive /səkˈsɛsɪv/ adj. 连续的，相继的，继承的